For at least one family gathering, the men sat around the kitchen table. In order left to right are Henry, Paul, Ted, Paul Brousseau (married to Angela), Vin Campbell (married to Fran), Dad Sherlock, and Jerry.
Maybe later the same day, this time along a couch: Dad Sherlock, Paul B, Paul, and Ted
How is it the same day? Dad Sherlock has the same time, Paul has the same suit/tie combo. Paul B took off his tie, and so has Ted. Both were known to like to relax that way.